One problem a Buddhist often encounters in daily life is that, though Buddhist meditations and philosophies quickly lead to the conclusion that the self is an illusion or delusion, most non-Buddhists assume that, and speak as if, the self is real [enough]. Perhaps the main way in which one encounters this is by the use of personal pronouns (I, me, my, you, we, he, she, they, etc.). Therefore, here are several examples of how one can avoid personal pronouns, in order to make one’s speech more Buddhist:
- Use the passive: I prefer this one. -> This one is preferable.
- Use participles: I went to the store, and the shelves were empty. -> Having gone to the store, the shelves were empty.
- Replace the pronoun with an impersonal one: My head hurts. -> This head hurts. (admittedly awkward)
- Remove the pronoun: I have a headache. -> [point to the head, maybe make a pained look, and say:] Headache.